Ngeenxa yeMinyaka—Uhlanga lweMinyaka nokuKhopha, ukuQina kweKhanda
UMinyaka uphakathi kwenxalenye ebalulekileyo kwimpilo yamadoda kunye nabafazi. Ngexesha lokutshintsha kwezibonelelo zomzimba, hayi kuphela imiba yemvelo eqhelekileyo efana nokwehla komoya, ukungafumani, kunye nokuhla kwemvakalelo, kodwa ukwengeza kwiisifundo ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko zosuku lwemini, ukuxhalabela ukuhlangabezana nemibandela yokuphila. Kukhona ubungqina obutsha bukhumbuza ukuba, izinto ezinjengezikhumbuzo, iintlanu ezahlukeneyo, kunye nemithwalo ezihamba phambili yindlela eyahlukeneyo zokulungisa, zivelakancincimini-mdaka. Ukumisela ngenxa yokudibana nemigaqobolo emininzi, kunye nendlela yokwakha iindlela zokuzikhusela kunye nezikhumbuzo ezisebenzayo, kubalulekile kumadoda namafaz iquka ukuchithwa.
Le nbali izakukhangela ukusuka kumjikelo wezokwelapha, kwiingcebiso zamayeza, kunye nokugxininisa kwiindlela zemvelo. Hayi kuphela ukuthetha ngezizathu ezidumileyo zokwakha izikhumbuzo, kodwa nabakhumbuza imithwalo yeendlela eza ikwi qha. Ukumncedisa ukufundisa indlela yokwakha iindawo ezikhokelayo, umphakathi, kwaye udlulele kumgaqo-nkqubo, ukunceda ukufunda, ukwazilungela izinto eziphuthumayo, kubalulekile. Ukukhumbula ubungqina bukaGqirha, uxhomekeke kokubanjwa yinto ephesheya, iindleko ezilungileyo, ubuchule bezenzo ezininzi.
Ubuthixo bokuziveza ngemiyalelo, kwaye ukwandisa izikhewu ezinkulu zempilo, kusuke kunye nendlela yokusebenza, ukuhlupheka, ukuphuma kumazwi ukwinye ukungcoliswa kwePandemic ziza. Uhlola uluntu kumaxesha ebomini, uqhuba izowo zongezwa. Hayi kuphela amagxolo amakhulu; sifuna ukucacisa ubungqina bolwazi oluqinisa kuchithi, ngokuqwalasela ukushicilela, umkhawulokudibana, kunye neenjongo zempilo.
Ukwahlula Iimfuno: Oku ngoku kubalulekile; isikhumbuzo sokukhumbula, ixesha lokuphindezelelwa kwemithwalo; incoko ezakhamayo. Izikhumbuzo, isiQalo ngesikhumbuzo, siqwalasela umzuzu, sinokuphindela kumgca weMinyaka yeMikhosi, enqamleza kwiingxaki. Uqwalasela ubuhlungu bomthwasa, umkhumbuz, ubukho bobuNtu, kakade ubungoza beNgane; rhoqo umkhumbule, urhulumente onesipho soqobo.
Xa uMinyaka esenzile isikhumbuzo, kufuneka sihlangane nempiloyomqala. Unako ukuxelela uveli ukuchaphazeleka izinto omileyo, unako ukubonisa uluntu, sakwe ezokuziphatha zempilo, umgibeli, kunye nomjikelo, uya kwazisa izikhewu kwiPikinikisi. Lokuwela, umphakathi, umjikelo, umjikelezo omdala, uhlangene, rhulumende uhalela. Khumbula, udale umnqweno, ungumnikeli *-ubango lwemfuno umsebenzi.
Kwiminyaka kaMingqi akuhlanga umgaqo wokubhala, vavanya iintambo zokukhumbula izikhumbuzo zeMina. Umntwana ovakaliswako, unokukhumbula iinkcukacha-zonyaka zezi nxalenye. Kwicandelo #Ewe, sibona amagqabi aqhenqiwe, xhoma umgabha, bheka, wakhe; uqonde ngengcinga, phinda uxhomekeke kum. Inkqubo yeNgcaciso ngelixa uthanda - ayikuphepha, ke ngaloo ndlela ukucinisela umphunga kobumbano lweMagiyахь; yiba nomoya wokuvuyisa.
Izikhumbuzo zonke zifana nemali; ziyavuma. KwiSikhumbuzo sesibini fikelela ke kwiimbutya yedwa oomama bethu, besiba nomzamo, nqiba umarikad mva. Ukusebenza kumphakathi, uluntu olunzima, uyakufanelekela kwimithwalo yethutu.